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The generation that is called the millennials, too many of them grew up subject to “failed parenting strategies.”
Where they were told that they were special – all the time, they were told they can have anything they want in life, just because they want it.
Some of them got into honors classes not because they deserved it but because their parents complained. Some of them got A’s not because they earned them, but because the teachers didn’t want to deal with the parents.
Some kids got participation medals, they got a medal for coming in last. Which the science we know is pretty clear is that it devalues the medal and the reward for those who actually work hard and that actually makes the person who comes in last embarrassed because they know they didn’t deserve it so that actually makes them feel worse.
You take this group of people and they graduate and they get a job and they’re thrust into the real world and in an instant they find out they are not special, their mom’s can’t get them a promotion, that you get nothing for coming in last and by the way you can’t just have it because you want it.
In an instant their entire self image is shattered. So we have an entire generation that is growing up with lower self esteem than previous generations.
